“She is so bossy.” The words were a stab in my heart and a punch in my gut. These are the words my eleven-year-old self overheard from a classmate who did not know I was listening. She may not have intended for me to be hurt by them, and I’m sure she also did not intend for them to have such a significant impact on me. That was not her fault. It was the lie that my mind latched on to and has been bound by for most of my life.
I’ve known for a while that those words have held me back, particularly in my professional career. However, until I started learning more about the nine personality types described by the enneagram, I was not really sure why. God has used this tool to wake me up to the reasons that situation has so impacted my life.
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